How did we classify which are s versus which sites were on the up and up? We started by creating our own profile and then setting the bait. When someone contacted us we made sure to follow it up, whether we wanted to or not. We rated the sites according to the type of married people who were on them (the type you wouldn’t want to touch, and the type you wanted to reach out and touch), the 
frequency of contact requests, the answering to our requests, and the amount of profiles that we found were just plain fake. When we found a preponderance of fake profiles and contact requests, we automatically ruled that site out. After all, why pay to be on a site that either doesn’t work, or is nothing more than a call girl for hire front. If you wanted to pay for sex, that would have been something you would have just gone and done to begin with.
What were the types of s that we encountered? We encountered those profiles that were just too good to be true. We knew that a Heidi Klum runway model type was probably not on the site cheating on her husband, but we decided to play it out and see where it took us. What we found was that if it looked too good to be true it was. The fake profiles that we found were one of two types. Either they were a front for a call girl service, or they were just someone who was soliciting money from poor lonely married people. Asking for money, to send money or to pay money for them to travel the distance to meet up. Most of the scams were not all that tricky, or believable, but they were irritating and annoying. No one wants to pay a monthly membership and then have to deal with 80% of the profiles not even being real. Most of the married online dating sites that we tested, unfortunately, did have those types of profiles in them. The top married dating sites that we ranked were the ones which we found either little, or none of those types of s attached to them.
What other criteria did we use?
We hoped on some of the sites to look through the profiles and instantly found that they were carrying a less than desirable clientele. It wasn’t hard to recognize that the profiles weren’t fake, but when looking, we understood why their spouse no longer wanted to have sex with them anyway. There were “second rate” sites that we did get a fair amount of responses from, but no one that we would even want to respond. Those are the sites that we didn’t include in our top married dating sites.
When we contacted people we made a tally of how many times they answered back. The amount of responses was much better on some sites than others. You get turned down enough in your own bed than to deal with only one or two out of a hundred answering your inquiry. If no one either contacted us, or answered our contact request, they didn’t make our top married dating sites. We believe that if you are paying for a service, it should actually get you what you want.
So how did we finally decide on the top married dating sites?
The three sites that we recommend in this married dating guide were the ones who had the hottest people to choose from, those who answered more frequently and those who reached out to us most. The online married dating sites that we chose were those who had real life e boat that you are. They want to have the sex life they used to have with their current spouse, but don’t want to have to break up their lives to do so. The other people on the married dating websites wanted anonymity as much as we did. They stressed over being caught as much as we did, and they just wanted to have a little fun in life. Overall, they gave us exactly what we were looking for.